When a loved one suffers a sudden or tragic loss of someone they love dearly, what can we possibly say that can be of benefit? There are no words that can help someone through their grieving process. The best we can do is express our love and support them in whatever way seems appropriate in our heart. The grieving process is one of the most human experiences we can have. The process itself is one of purification, allowing the release of all types of emotions, including sadness, sorrow, anger, rage and many others. Full expression of these emotions is very important as a growth process in the individual’s journey. It allows them to start moving forward with a higher perspective on the sacredness of life itself.
We may know that death is a liberating process and that all spiritual traditions teach about the afterlife. We can rationalise that the deceased is in a more wonderful place, as virtually everyone who has had a near death experience, (including me) has described the beauty of the other side. We know that death is a natural part of the cycle of life and that everything happens for our ultimate benefit, no matter how painful it may be in the moment. Although it is nice to have the reassurance of these perspectives on life, the emotions of sorrow and grief are one of the most natural things that make us human. Honour those emotions and the important role they play in our lives. Everything has its place in this unique journey called life. Why not give thanks for all aspects of this cycle of life. Be Mindful… Pause… Connect!
Mindful Love & Life Always! – John Shearer
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